Let's say there's a Hydrogen atom in a spin triplet state.
$$ | \downarrow\downarrow \rangle$$
Now let's say a photon with spin 1 came along abs was absorbed by the atom. We don't know if the proton or electron absorbed the atom, so they are now in a superposition.
$$\frac{1}{\sqrt{2}}\big(| \downarrow\uparrow \rangle+| \uparrow\downarrow \rangle \big)$$
If yet another photon spin 1 came along whichever one had spin down would absorb it and the result would be that both have spin up.
$$ | \uparrow\uparrow \rangle$$
That was a spin triplet state. But now let's consider a spin singlet state. The whole point of this state is that it cannot change into other spin states, right?
$$\frac{1}{\sqrt{2}}\big(| \downarrow\uparrow \rangle-| \uparrow\downarrow \rangle \big)$$
If this state cannot change then it must mean it cannot absorb nor emit photons with spin 1 or -1, but then, how does it interact with the electromagnetic force?
In fact this is similar to how color singlet states cannot absorb nor emit gluons, but the electromagnetic force is not confined like the Strong is, so singlet states must interact with electromagnetism somehow, right?. Perhaps it can absorb photons in some weird superposition of spin states?
I don't know, please help me out here.