I can't understand why intuitively the max power is at the natural frequency. We were told in our notes that the power absorbed is exactly equal to the rate at which energy is dissipated. Yet, if we assume a system with damping the maximum amplitude does not occur at the natural frequency so why is most energy being dissipated at a frequency which has a lower amplitude than the frequency that gives the max amplitude? ($$E\propto A^{2}$$)
I understand the reason why max power occurs at the resonance frequency (because velocity is in phase with the force) but just not why there is maximum energy dissipated. Thanks.