My question is, can a physical process be deemed valid/invalid, such as muon decay, purely from the allowed standard model vertices? Or do we need to take into account things like lepton numbers and energy conservation?
For example, consider muon decay, $ \ \mu^- \to \nu_\mu + e^- + \bar{\nu_e}$, described by the Feynman diagram,
But it seems that another valid Feynman diagram according to the standard model would be the following,
Which represents $e^- \to \nu_e + \mu^- + \bar{\nu_\mu}$. The reason I thought to put the $\bar{\nu_\mu}$ was because of lepton numbers, not because of valid standard model vertices, as $\nu_\mu$ would have been a valid choice as well.
Since electrons have smaller rest mass than muons, it seems that the second diagram would violate conservation of energy in the rest frame of the "decaying" electron, so this is not a valid physical process.
Edit: I got the arrow on the outgoing $\bar{\nu_\mu}$ wrong. Oops.