The neatest answer I know to this uses energy rather than force....
The projectile passes any height $h$ twice, on the way up and on the way down, and in both cases it has potential energy $mgh$.
Between these two occurrences it loses some energy - maybe a little, maybe a lot, we don't have to specify any particular model - due to air resistance, so its total energy, which is $mgh+{1 \over 2} mv^2$, must be smaller on the way down than on the way up.
But as $mgh$ is the same going up and coming down, ${1 \over 2} mv^2$ must be smaller on the way down, and that means $v$ must be smaller.
So at every point on the trajectory, the speed is greater on the way up than on the way down. So the upward journey is quicker than the downward journey.