A common approximation to the \begin{equation} U(\vec{r})=-m\frac{\alpha(Z\alpha)}{\pi} \int_1^\infty\mathrm{d}u\frac{\sqrt{u^2-1}\left(2u^2+1\right)}{3u^4}\frac{\exp(-2mur)}{mr} \tag{$\star$} \end{equation} Uehling interaction energy is a delta function approximation: \begin{equation} U_\delta(\vec{r})=-\frac{4}{15}\frac{\alpha(Z\alpha)}{m^2}\delta(\vec{r}) \ . \end{equation} This is usually not derived directly from $(\star)$, but by neglecting the higher momentum contributions of the one-loop vacuum polarization function $\Pi(-q^2)$ in momentum space (with $q=|\vec{q}|$): \begin{equation} U(\vec{q})=-Z\alpha\frac{4\pi}{q^2}\Pi(-q^2)=-Z\alpha\frac{4\pi}{q^2}\left(\frac{\alpha}{15\pi}\frac{q^2}{m^2}+{\cal{O}}(q^4/m^4)\right)\approx-\frac{4}{15}\frac{\alpha(Z\alpha)}{m^2} \ , \end{equation} from which $U_\delta$ is found by a Fourier transform. Clearly, this works under the assumption $q\ll m$, which in coordinate space means $r\gg1/m$: this is a long-range approximation for distances much larger than the (reduced) Compton wavelength.
However, in the literature, something different is meant by the $r\gg1/m$ approximation: \begin{equation} U_\text{h}(\vec{r})=-m\frac{\alpha(Z\alpha)}{4\sqrt{\pi}(mr)^{5/2}}\exp(-2mr) \ , \end{equation} which is found from a direct asymptotic expansion of $(\star)$. I often hear the claim (e.g. in Sec. 10.4.4 of Jentschura & Adkins) that $U_\text{h}$ should be thought of as an improvement over $U_\delta$, but I do not see how the two are related.
In order to compare the two approximations, I tried to approximately turn $U_\text{h}$ into a delta function form by using the following representation of the nascent delta function: \begin{equation} \delta(\vec{r};\epsilon)=\frac{1}{\epsilon^3}f(\vec{r}/\epsilon) \ \ , \ \ f(\vec{r})=\sqrt{\frac{2}{\pi}}\frac{\exp(-2r)}{4\pi r^{5/2}} \ . \end{equation} This might seem weird, but all requirements for the nascent delta function are satisfied: the function is absolutely integrable on $\mathbb{R}^3$, and we have \begin{align} \lim_{\epsilon\rightarrow0}\delta(\vec{r};\epsilon)= \begin{cases} 0 \ \ \ &\text{if $\vec{r}\neq\vec{\emptyset}$} \\ \infty \ \ \ &\text{if $\vec{r}=\vec{\emptyset}$} \end{cases} \ \ \ \ , \ \ \ \ \int\mathrm{d}^3r\delta(\vec{r};\epsilon)=1 \ . \end{align} Then we can write \begin{equation} U_\text{h}(\vec{r})=-\frac{\pi}{\sqrt{2}}\frac{\alpha(Z\alpha)}{m^2}\delta\left(\vec{r};\frac{1}{m}\right)\approx-\frac{\pi}{\sqrt{2}}\frac{\alpha(Z\alpha)}{m^2}\delta(\vec{r}) \ , \end{equation} where we used $1/m\ll r$ again in the last step. We ended up with a delta function, but with a wrong prefactor, so the claim that $U_\delta$ is just a cruder form of $U_\text{h}$ does not seem to be true. Interestingly, the same trick does lead to $U_\delta$ when applied directly on $(\star)$! Using \begin{equation} \delta(\vec{r};\epsilon)=\frac{1}{\epsilon^3}f(\vec{r}/\epsilon) \ \ , \ \ f(\vec{r})=\frac{\exp(-r)}{4\pi r} \ , \end{equation} we find \begin{align} U(\vec{r}) &= -m\frac{\alpha(Z\alpha)}{\pi} \int_1^\infty\mathrm{d}u\frac{\sqrt{u^2-1}\left(2u^2+1\right)}{3u^4}\frac{\pi}{m^3u^2}\delta\left(\vec{r};\frac{1}{2mu}\right) \\ &= -\frac{\alpha(Z\alpha)}{m^2} \int_1^\infty\mathrm{d}u\frac{\sqrt{u^2-1}\left(2u^2+1\right)}{3u^6}\delta\left(\vec{r};\frac{1}{2mu}\right) \\ &\approx-\frac{\alpha(Z\alpha)}{m^2}\delta(\vec{r})\int_1^\infty\mathrm{d}u\frac{\sqrt{u^2-1}\left(2u^2+1\right)}{3u^6} \\ &= -\frac{4}{15}\frac{\alpha(Z\alpha)}{m^2}\delta(\vec{r}) \ . \end{align} So, my main question is: how to properly understand $U_\delta$? Is it really "just" a long-range approximation of the Uehling interaction, or are there some other conditions/properties that I do not see? It cannot be obtained by further approximating the "usual" long-range approximation $U_\text{h}$, but then what is the actual relation between these two?
While $U_\delta$ is used routinely to compute the leading-order perturbative QED correction for atoms, calculating $\langle U_\text{h}\rangle$ (with or without the above delta function approximation) for e.g. the $1S$ ground state of hydrogen would give an incorrect contribution at ${\cal{O}}(m\alpha(Z\alpha)^4)$; higher order terms in the asymptotic expansion would be even divergent for $S$ states (the next term scales as $\sim\exp(-2mr)/r^{7/2}$). On one hand, this problematic behaviour is understandable, since the ground state wave function has an important part for $r<1/m$ too. But if both $U_\delta$ and $U_\text{h}$ are "just" long-range approximations, then why does one of them work, while the other does not?
Edit
Just to make my point more clear, let us compare the expectation values of $U_\delta$ and $U_\text{h}$ for the ground state of hydrogen (in the infinite nuclear mass limit): \begin{equation} \psi(\vec{r})=\sqrt{\frac{(m Z\alpha)^3}{\pi}}\exp(-m Z\alpha r) \ . \end{equation} We find \begin{equation} \langle\psi|U_\delta|\psi\rangle=-\frac{4}{15\pi}m\alpha(Z\alpha)^4 \ , \end{equation} but \begin{equation} \langle\psi|U_\text{h}|\psi\rangle=-\frac{1}{\sqrt{2(1+Z\alpha)}}m\alpha(Z\alpha)^4\approx-\frac{1}{\sqrt{2}}m\alpha(Z\alpha)^4 \ . \end{equation} We would get the same latter result with the delta function approximation of $U_\text{h}$. We know from the precision spectroscopy of hydrogen that $\langle U_\delta\rangle$ gives the correct ${\cal{O}}(m\alpha(Z\alpha)^4)$ vacuum polarization contribution to the energy shift (see e.g. p. 23 and 32-33 of the review by Eides, Grotch and Shelyuto). But then what is wrong with $\langle U_\text{h}\rangle$?