I stopped being able to understand the double-slit experiment way before any of the interference and associated "quantum weirdness" came into play. I get that one needs to approach this field with an open mind. I get it. And yet, every single video I watch on the topic doesn't even bother to explain why the particles get scattered at all. That is, why does the set of geometric points where the particles land contain more than 2 elements?
I will illustrate with screenshots from this video:
I tried to really figure this one out by resorting to an actual physics textbook, not just videos. There I could read in great detail about polarized light, the Huygens principle, light diffraction, wavelength and slit size... But this is not about light. Right from the video we learn that the entire experiment can be performed with molecules of buckminsterfullerene. We might as well be throwing wheelbarrows through a pair of windows.
Perhaps the scattering is caused by the fact that it is physically impossible to create slits with exactly the same diameter as the diameter of the particle. It could be the Van der Waals force between the particle and the edges of the slit. Or perhaps it is just hard to "shoot straight". It could be our trembling, clumsy hands foolishly trying to cut precise slits before we had our first drink of the day. But all these things are nuisances that we are trying to eliminate as much as possible for the sake of the experiment, right? Getting the particles only to go one of two exact ways is the point of making the slits in the first place, or not? Surely the experiment itself does not rely on these imperfections that someone with a bigger budget and unburdened by alcoholism would strive to eliminate, right?
My guess would be something to do with the slits being elongated in the vertical (but possibly arbitrary) direction. In any case, it seems that all the virtuous free content creators (absolutely no sarcasm is intended, I am truly blessed to get all this knowledge for free) who teach about the experiment share some insider knowledge that is too trivial even to mention.
EDIT: Thanks to Vincent for his comment which made me change the title to clarify what and why I am asking. I am not trying to advance any new theories, debunk any existing or contribute anything to the existing scientific corpus. I just want to understand the experiment for my own satisfaction.
The narrative, as I understand it, is that the hero, ignorant of quantum physics, sees the interference patterns, is profoundly shaken by their appearance, and, with his beliefs and theories shattered, is only then ready to embark on the great quantum physics adventure. I want to know why the hero expects to see presumably a cloud of points without interference patterns as opposed to two points.