If you would like to show without symmetry that the components go to zero, you need to write out the components using the unit-vector associated with the direction of $d\vec{E}$. This can be done by noticing that the vector connecting the element of charge and the point of interest also points in the same direction as $d\vec{E}$. Therefore, we can construct the unit-vector of $d\vec{E}$ from $\vec{r}$, the vector the points from the element of charge and the point of interest. The figure draw below is to allow you to see how I am generating the vector $\vec{r}$, which you can think of as the blue line.
So,
$$\vec{r}=\left<x-0,0-a\cos(\phi),0-a\sin(\phi)\right>=\left<x,-a\cos(\phi),-a\sin(\phi)\right>$$
The unit-vector is obtained by dividing by the magnitude of $\vec{r}$, which is
$$r=\sqrt{x^2+(-a\cos(\phi))^2+(-a\sin(\phi))^2}=\sqrt{x^2+a^2}$$
So,
$$\hat{r}=\left<\frac{x}{x^2+a^2},-\frac{a\cos(\phi)}{x^2+a^2},-\frac{a\sin(\phi)}{x^2+a^2}\right>$$
Writing out $d\vec{E}$ fully, we get
$$d\vec{E}=k\frac{dq}{r^2}\hat{r}=k\frac{dq}{x^2+a^2}\left<\frac{x}{x^2+a^2},-\frac{a\cos(\phi)}{x^2+a^2},-\frac{a\sin(\phi)}{x^2+a^2}\right>$$
or
$$d\vec{E}=\left<k\frac{xdq}{\left(x^2+a^2\right)^{3/2}},-k\frac{adq\cos(\phi)}{\left(x^2+a^2\right)^{3/2}},-k\frac{adq\sin(\phi)}{\left(x^2+a^2\right)^{3/2}}\right>$$
Since the ring is a 1-dimensional object, we can associate it with
$$\lambda=\frac{dq}{dl}$$
or
$$dq=\lambda dl$$
And since the element $dl$ is just a section of the ring,
$$dl=ad\phi$$
The rest is just integrating the ring and you can see that the y-component and the z-component goes to zero because we are integrating $\sin(\phi)$ and $\cos(\phi)$ through a full period.