You are confusing circular motion with motion on an inclined plane. The most important difference is where does the net force points to: (i) for the latter the net force is in the direction of the inclined plane, and (ii) for the former the net force is in the horizontal direction, i.e. towards the center of circular motion.
For the motion on an inclined plane, the object moves along the surface, i.e. there are forces in both vertical and horizontal directions whose resultant is in the direction of the inclined plane.
For the circular motion there is no net force in the vertical direction, i.e. there is only force component in the horizontal direction which is in the direction of the center of circular motion. Hence the term centripetal force or radial force.
The trick to understand this is that you start from the net (resultant) force and then solve what normal force must be in order to satisfy the initial assumption.
I will emphasize once more the initial assumption for circular motion on banked roads: (i) the car does not move in vertical direction, and (ii) there is net force in the direction of the center of circular motion.
Let’s say that the road is at angle $\theta$ to the horizontal surface. Then the road exerts normal force on the car at the angle $(90^\circ - \theta)$ to horizontal. Since the car is in equilibrium in the vertical direction, according to the first Newton’s law we have:
$$w - n \cdot \cos \theta = 0 \tag 1$$
where $w$ is the car’s weight:
$$w = m \cdot g \tag 2$$
The only force in the horizontal direction is the projection of the normal force to horizontal:
$$F_\text{net} = n \cdot \cos (90^\circ - \theta) = n \cdot \sin \theta \tag 3$$
The net force in horizontal direction is actually the centripetal force that acts always towards the center of circular motion. According to the second Newton’s law we have:
$$F_\text{net} = m \cdot a \tag 4$$
By combining all these equations we finally get the expression for the centripetal acceleration:
$$\boxed{a = g \cdot \tan \theta}$$
where the centripetal acceleration is defined as:
$$\boxed{a = \frac{v^2}{R}}$$
where $v$ is car's speed and $R$ is radius of the circular motion. Here you can find derivation of the expression for the centripetal acceleration: https://physics.stackexchange.com/a/685423/149541