Sum-frequency generation is easy for my to understand. Two photons combine their energies in a nonlinear medium and out comes one photon with the sum of both energies.
But Difference-frequency generation is harder for me. For one thing, I'm struck by where the extra energy went? Is it heating up the nonlinear medium?
Is there a way for me to visualize this process that is similar to my understanding of the case of Sum-frequency generation?