If you know something about what is surrounding your wire (like it's very far from any other conductors or it's a known distance above a ground plane) you could determine its length from its rf resonances. This would most readily be done with a network analyzer, although a more primitive setup with just a synthesizer and a vector voltmeter or an SWR meter or even a Wien bridge could be used.
If you restrict the discussion to a wire above a ground plane, (or in another structure that forms a transmission line), then time domain reflectometry could be used to find the length. This technique involves sending a pulse along the wire and using an oscilloscope to measure the time it takes for a reflected pulse to return to the launch point.