I've edited the post. Q1 and Q4 are the important ones but I didn't delete Q2 and Q3 since some older answers would not make sense anymore.
To begin with, the formula of the kinetic energy $T$ is $\frac{mv^2}{2}$. Furthermore momentum is conserved $\Sigma m_{i}\vec{v_{i}}=const.$ Then you have the definition that force is the change of momentum with respect to time $\vec{F}=\dfrac{d(m\vec{v})}{dt}$. I've read the chapters concerning mechanics of Physics for scientists and engineers by Giancoli and the Feynman Lectures. Giancoli introduces the arbitrarily work as $W=\int\vec{F} \cdot d \vec{s}$. From this definition of work he derives the kinetic energy to be $\frac{mv^2}{2}$. In contrast to that, in the Feynman lectures you never get a derivation of $\frac{mv^2}{2}$, but it is shown that $\dfrac{dT}{dt}=\vec{F}\cdot\vec{v} = \vec{F}\cdot\dfrac{d\vec{s}}{dt}$. Then it is shown that $dT=\vec{F}\cdot d \vec{s}$ and as a consequence $\Delta T = \vec{F} \cdot \vec{s}$ which is called work. http://www.feynmanlectures.caltech.edu/I_13.html#Ch13-S1
Now I've got some questions:
Q1 Is $F=\dfrac{d(mv)}{dt}$ just an arbitrary definition or is there something "more" behind the formula for force?
Q2 Is $W=\int\vec{F} \cdot d \vec{s}$ just a definition or is there something more behind? I mean, can you derive the formula for work not by taking the formula for the kinetic energy as given.
Q3 How to derive the formula for the kinetic energy and work only form the conservation of momentum $\Sigma m_{i}\vec{v_{i}}=const.$?
Q4 How are work and kinetic energy defined? I have found both: A) Kinetic energy is doable work and work is $F=\dfrac{d(mv)}{dt}$. B) The formula for kinetic energy is: $\frac{mv^2}{2}$. Then, after some maths it follows that $\Delta T = \int \vec{F} \cdot d\vec{s}$. It doesn't make sense to define 2 things in that way. This would be circular logic.
P.S.: I am not a native English Speaker so feel free to edit.