Consider momentum operator representation in position space. $$\hat{p}=-i\frac{\partial}{\partial x} \,\ \text{and its eigen functions are } e^{ipx} \,\text{and} \,\ e^{-ipx}.$$ $$\hat{p}e^{ipx}=pe^{ipx}$$ Taking the complex conjugate of the equation, $${\hat{p}}^* e^{-ipx}=p^* e^{-ipx}\tag{1}$$ Because momentum eigenvalue is real, $p^* =p$. Thus $${\hat{p}}^* e^{-ipx}=p e^{-ipx}$$ Now consider, $$-\hat{p}e^{-ipx}=pe^{-ipx}$$ From these two equations we see that ${\hat{p}}^* =-\hat{p}$.\
Now consider the matrix representation of the momentum operator. In the basis of the momentum eigenstates, the momentum operator matrix (infinite dimensional) is diagonal and the diagonal elements represent the eigenvalues of the momentum operator just as in the case of other finite dimensional operators. This means that the complex conjugate of the $p-$matrix is $p-$matrix itself. However we saw from the above logic that the complex conjugate should be negative of the $p-$matrix.\
I can't see where the problem is!!