If two bodies exert forces on each other, these forces are equal in magnitude and opposite in direction.
This law is often addressed as the action-reaction principle, though the term "principle" might suggest we're dealing with a postulate. As such, it cannot be derived from more basic laws.
Since the "principle" of inertia has nothing dogmatic - it's just a particular case of the $2^{\rm nd}$ law, where the net force is zero - I thought the same could be said about the $3^{\rm rd}$ law.
A recurring example is that of the apple and the Earth.
An apple in free fall accelerates toward the Earth with a free fall acceleration. The force of the apple on the Earth also causes the Earth to accelerate toward the falling apple. By Newton's Third Law, the force of the Earth on the apple is exactly equal and opposite to the force of the apple on the Earth. (...)
The thing is... why does it have to be like this? This is what I've thought, but I'm not sure if it's a fair way of looking at it, nor if it can be used in general.
Consider the apple-Earth system, with the apple still attached to its tree.
Nothing is moving, and since there are no external forces acting on it (forget the Sun, the Moon, the other planets, etc. for a moment), the net force at any instant should be zero. Therefore, if it gains some internal forces at some point, like the weight force of the now falling apple, they must balance one another, otherwise an internal non-zero net force would make the whole system accelerate.
So.. qed?
I don't know. Is this approach valid in general? For example, are all the internal forces in a (not-accelerating) cloud balanced?