I have some understanding that a relationship exists between time and velocity. As velocity increases, time passes slower for the person in motion at any significant velocity more than those at rest or moving slowly in relationship to the one moving significantly faster.
The example often given is the astronaut moving at half light speed to a distant planet returns to find everyone he knew has aged more than he has. I am comfortable that time can change with velocity as well as with gravity. I've read that a photon emitted from the first star has been traveling for billions of years at the speed of light but has experienced no time passing.
My question is 'Why?' Why does this relationship exist between time and velocity. Why, for example, doesn't time move more quickly when it's hot and more slowly when it's cold? Why isn't time temperature dependent?
Why doesn't time pass more quickly or slowly depending upon perturbations in the quark field?
What gives velocity the power to affect time?