You can find the answer to your question in chapter 5 of the book by Dan M. Goebel and Ira Katz "Fundamentals of Electric Propulsion: Ion and Hall Thrusters".
The reasons behind different hole sizes is summarized in the paragraph quoted below, where the "screen" grid is just another term used to describe the "scoop" grid:
In actual design, the diameter of each accel grid aperture is
minimized to retain unionized neutral gas in the plasma generator, and
the screen grid transparency is maximized so that the grid
extracts the maximum possible number of ions from the plasma. The
electrode diameters and spacing are then optimized to eliminate direct
interception of the beam ions on the accel grid, which would cause
rapid erosion due to the high ion energy.
The screen grid is needed to prevent the erosion of the accel-grid due to the impact of the high speed ions, which miss the accel-grid holes and get intercepted by it. Aligning the holes of the screen grid with the holes of the accel-grid ensures that most of the ions, extracted by the screen grid, will hit the holes of the accel-grid.
To maximize the number of the extracted ions, the holes in the screen grid have to be relatively big. To minimize the loss of neutral atoms, which could drift out of the thruster at low speed without contributing much to the propulsion, the holes in the accel-grid have to be relatively small.
You can find much more details in section 5.1.