In general if the imparted momentum vector $\vec{J}$ goes through a point $\vec{r}$ relative to the center of mass then the change in speed of the center of mass is
$$ \begin{aligned}
\Delta \vec{v} &= \frac{1}{m} \vec{J} \\
\Delta \vec{\omega} & = I^{-1} (\vec{r} \times \vec{J})
\end{aligned} $$
where $\times$ is the vector cross product. In 2D if the impact momentum is $J$ at a distance $h$ from the center of mass, then angular momentum is $\vec{r} \times \vec{J} = (0,0,J h)$
The change in speed of the point of impact A is thus
$$ \begin{aligned}
\Delta \vec{v}_A &= \Delta \vec{v} -\vec{r} \times \Delta \vec{\omega} \\
& = \frac{1}{m}\vec{J} - \vec{r} \times I^{-1} (\vec{r} \times \vec{J})
\end{aligned}$$
Making this into a 2D problem with $\vec{v}_A =(0,v_{impact},0)$, $\vec{J}=(0,J,0)$ and $\vec{r}=(h,0,0)$ you have
$$ \left. v_{impact} = \frac{J}{m} + \frac{J h^2}{I} \right\} J = \frac{1}{\frac{1}{m}+
\frac{h^2}{I}} v_{impact} $$
So the reduced mass of the system is $J=m_{reduced} v_{impact}$ with $m_{reduced} = \frac{1}{\frac{1}{m}+
\frac{h^2}{I}} $
A lot of insight comes from transforming the problem from a rigid body impact to a equivalent particle impact with reduced mass.
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