Of course it shouldn't be. Please shoot me down.
Let $H$ be a single-particle Hamiltonian. It is time reversal symmetric if there exists some $U_T$ satisfying:
$$ \begin{split} U_T^{\dagger}\, U_T &= 1, \, U_T^{*} \, U_T = \pm 1; \\ U_T^{\dagger} \, H^{*} \, U_T &= H. \end{split} $$
My understanding based on Schnyder et. al. is that I don't have to discuss specifically how spin, momentum or whatnot transform under time reversal. I can keep the state labels all abstract, and just focus on the above condition.
Being a Hamiltonian, $H$ should be Hermitian. It is therefore diagonalizable by some unitary $J$, and it has only real eigenvalues. Let $\tilde{H}$ be the diagonal form:
$$ J \, H \, J^{\dagger} = \tilde{H} = \tilde{H}^{*} = J^{*} \, H^{*} \, J^{t}. $$
Now if I just identify $U_T = J^{t} J$. This guy is obviously unitary, turns $H^{*}$ into $H$, and satisfies $U_T^{*} \, U_T = 1$. Thus one can define a time-reversal symmetry for any Hamiltonian as long as it is Hermitian.
I am very confused at this point. It will be greatly appreciated if anyone can tell me what goes wrong here.
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@hft suggests in the comment that my question is similar to this one.
Well, in that question, the answer reached was "if a Hamiltonian is unitarily equivalent to its complex conjugate, it is time reversal symmetric." Here I just showed that any Hamiltonian is unitarily equivalent to its complex conjugate.
Not only is that previous question not helpful, I have serious issue with that answer.
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My confusion is largely cleared thanks to @Andrew and @mikestone. Let me summarize my new-found understanding here.
As far as the mathematical classification goes, one must first define "time reversal" with respect to a particular basis and stick with it throughout. $U_T$ comes pre-determined, and all we can do is to test whether a Hamiltonian is invariant under this particular $U_T$. Physically speaking, we know what time reversal is before we have the Hamiltonian.
(Otherwise, as demonstrated above, I can always cook up a $U_T$ with all the correct properties for any Hamiltonian. The whole thing just becomes meaningless.)
Consider the physical example of a 4-site spinless fermion hopping problem with magnetic flux. The Hilbert space is spanned by $| n \rangle$, with periodic identification $| n + 4 \rangle = | n \rangle$. Given the physical meaning, we would want to take simply $U_T = 1$.
The Hamiltonian is $$ H = \sum_{n=1}^{4} t | n \rangle \langle n+1 | + h.c. $$ In the presence of a magnetic flux, $t$ is complex. Then this Hamiltonian is not invariant with $U_T = 1$.
While I can cook up some $\tilde{U_T}$ that seemingly keeps $H$ invariant, that "time reversal" operation mixes lattice sites. Is it a "hidden symmetry" of this particular $H$? Yes. Can we find an entire class of Hamiltonians that share the same symmetry? You bet. But is it a physically useful thing to do? Not quite. For one thing, it is easily broken by a site-dependent chemical potential, a rather mundane perturbation.
More importantly, if I decide that time reversal is instead given by that $\tilde{U_T}$, I have to stick with it. With this definition, the $t \in \mathbb{R}$ model becomes T-non-invariant instead. As @mikestone remarked, mathematically you will come up with a similar classification scheme anyway, but you may not want it that way for physical reasons.