Why do electromagnetic, strong, and weak forces have spin-1 mediators, while gravity's hypothesized mediator has spin 2?
This question aims to explore the fundamental differences between gravity and other fundamental forces, focusing on why their force-carrying particles have different spins. I am not asking about the technical derivation of the graviton's spin from the Einstein-Hilbert action, but rather seeking to understand the physical or theoretical reasons behind this spin difference across forces.