My procedure is the following in cylindrical coordinates ($\rho,\theta,z$):
The kinetic energy, \begin{equation} T=\frac{1}{2} m v^{2}=\frac{1}{2} m\left(\dot{p}^{2}+\rho^{2} \theta^{2}+\dot{z}^{2}\right) \end{equation}
The potential energy for OP being the distance from the particle to the spring/origin($OP=\sqrt{x^2+y^2+z^2}=\sqrt{z^2+\rho^2}$), \begin{equation} V=m g z+\frac{1}{2} k {O P^{2}}=m gz+\frac{1}{2} k\left(z^{2}+\rho^{2}\right) \end{equation}
The constraints, $$ z=h\quad \rho=R $$ So the Lagrangian is: $$ L=T-V=\frac{1}{2} m v^{2}=\frac{1}{2} m\left(\dot{p}^{2}+\rho^{2} \theta^{2}+\dot{z}^{2}\right)-m gz-\frac{1}{2} k\left(z^{2}+\rho^{2}\right)+\lambda_\rho(\rho-R)+\lambda_z(z-h) $$ The equations of motion: \begin{equation} \rho \rightarrow m \ddot{\rho} -m \rho \dot\theta^{2}+k p=\lambda_\rho \end{equation} \begin{equation} \theta \rightarrow \frac{d}{d t}\left(m\rho^2 \dot{\theta}\right)=0\rightarrow \dot\theta=\frac{L_z}{\rho^2m}(\text {$L_z$ angular momentum for z axis }) \end{equation} \begin{equation} z \rightarrow m \ddot{z}+m g+k z=\lambda_z \end{equation} Since $\ddot \rho=0$ and $\ddot z=0$, we have: $$ \lambda_\rho=m\ddot\rho-m\rho(\frac{L_z}{\rho^2m})^2+k\rho=k\rho-\frac{L_z^2}{\rho^3m} $$ $$ \lambda_z=m\ddot z+mg+kz=k+mg $$ So finally we have:
$$ \lambda_\rho=k\rho-\frac{L_z^2}{\rho^3m} \quad \lambda_z=k+mg $$ The problem and my question is when I get the generalized forces, I don't understand what kind of force I'm working with. I mean, if I have a strong spring($k_\rho>\frac{L_z^2}{\rho^3m}$), so the constraint force is positive at $\hat{\rho}$, is this still the reaction force? Shouldn't be negative why it's positive, specially if I'm dealing with a particle that starts without velocity. And the same goes for $\lambda_z$.
I don't really understand what I'm getting and their physical meaning.
Any help will be very much appreciated.