In the answer by Ron Maimon in this stack post, he writes:
if you smack two identical clay balls of mass $m$ moving with velocity $v$ head-on into each other, both balls stop, by symmetry. The result is that each acts as a wall for the other, and you must get an amount of heating equal to $2m E(v)$.
What exactly is this symmetry that he speaks of?
If you do momentum conservation then you can get that the total momentum of system must be zero but I'm not sure how you could deduce that each clay ball must have velocity of zero after collision.