Searching Physics Stackexchange for entropy I have found several posts regarding entropy, lately most of the questions why entropy is a state variable.
This got me thinking. I have understood so far that from the following two posts
Is entropy $S$ a fundamental quantity like Temperature?
Proof for $\oint \frac{dQ}{T}=0 $ in a reversible process
that I can proof that there is such thing as a state variable in a reversible process defined by
$$ d S = \frac{d Q_{rev}}{T} $$
While for an irreversible process $$ S \geq 0$$ holds. The commonly found argument with two bodies of different temperature brought together and as each has its own temperature, the changes in entropy are different resulting in an overall change of entropy
$$ \Delta S = \Delta S_A + \Delta S_B = - \frac{d Q_A}{T_A} + \frac{d Q_B}{T_B} $$
The problem I have with the equation is the following:
We add two terms that assume reversible processes $\Delta S_A$ and $\Delta S_B$, add them up and a new quantity that clearly is non-zero but should still be a state variable in this irreversible case. How can I be sure that in such an irreversible case the introduction of entropy is meaningful and that such a state variable even exists? So far the aforementioned posts have only proven its existence for the reversible case! And why do I even have to take the temperature of the corresponding boundaries $T_A$ and $T_B$ and not something like a temperature $\frac{T_A + T_B}{2}$ for both. In such a case the entropy would still be $0$ for an irreversible process.
I had also a look at Entropy as a state function - Is it just a postulate of the second principle? and Is "entropy" not a state variable for irreversible process? but none of them gives a logical answer to that and makes it seem as if the entropy of an irreversible system is just a postulate, is it?