Given any electric and magnetic field (or $F_{\mu\nu}$), there is always some freedom in defining what $A_\mu(x)$ should be. In fact, there are infinite choices for $A_\mu(x)$. This is because for an arbitrary function $\theta(x)$ $$A_\mu^\prime=A_\mu+\partial_\mu\theta(x)$$ is also a possible choice of $A_\mu$. The gauge condition $\partial^\mu A_\mu=0$, however, selects a $A_\mu(x)$ from an infinite set of $A_\mu(x)$. This is what I think should be called the gauge-fixing.
But in quantizing a radiation field, we add a term $-\frac{1}{2\xi}(\partial_\mu A^\mu)^2$ to the Lagrangian. This is called adding a gauge-fixing term.
Please help me understand what does this step really mean. Are we just adding zero to the Lagrangian (because the added term is zero in the Lorenz gauge)? If so, why? What's the point in adding a zero to the Lagrangian?
If we are adding this as a nonzero term, to begin with, what gives us the right to add this term in the first place which is not a divergence (but the square of a divergence) term?
As expected, this does change Maxwell's equation with the gauge fixing term $-\frac{1}{2\xi}(\partial_\mu A^\mu)^2$ added to the Lagrangian in the limit of arbitrary but finite $\xi$. The equation for $A_\mu$ and $F_{\mu\nu}$ is changed from $$\Box A^\nu=j^\nu,$$ $$\partial_\mu F^{\mu\nu}=j^\nu$$ to $$\Box A^\nu-(1-\frac{1}{\xi})\partial^\nu(\partial_\mu A^\mu)=j^\nu,$$ $$\partial_\mu F^{\mu\nu}-(1-\frac{1}{\xi})\partial^\nu(\partial_\mu A^\mu)=j^\nu.$$