EDIT: I appreciate people who answered below. But it does not answer the question, so I will clarify my questions:
-It seems like everyone is saying that time passing is actualized by physical process happening. But wouldn't that mean that photon can never change, as no physical process could happen to it? Then how could photon be absorbed, and whatever other thing that could happen to it.
-We start with this spacetime. At the present moment, I am at a point in spacetime. Which other part of this spacetime constitute "universe at present time"? And if I perceive something happen (say an explosion on a star), what allow me to determine whether it happens at the present, or X amount of time ago?
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Original question: I was just starting to have a look of general relativity, which have an assumption that basically say that time itself is relative. As I was reading this article: What Do You Mean, The Universe Is Flat? (Part I)
I saw the sentences "So here is one natural notion of the universe: all of three-dimensional space at the present time. Call it the nowverse." Now this strucks me as odd. We knew for a long time that there are no absolute space: it makes no sense to say that an object stay at the "same place". Then what does that means to say "present time". In a more general term, what does it mean for time to pass for an object? Specifically, if an object perceive event A followed by event B, what does it means to say X amount of time elapsed between the 2 events? Since there are no global time coordinate, we can't just take the time coordinates of these 2 events and find the differences. And I am looking for an answer that tie the concept of time pass to actual physical phenomenon, so "length of the object's world line" won't work, since the metric tensor is an even more abstract object.
(the "How can time be relative?" question is about discrepancy between intuition and physics, while this question already assume the physics is correct; in particular, that question does not explain how can people say "the universe at present time")