I will give it a shot (actually it is my first seriously answer with math, ha! Sorry for my lousy English!).
Let
$\vec{J}=\sigma\vec{v}_\text{rain}$
$\sigma$ is the density of rain.
Assuming
- your front windshield is vertical.
- the raining is uniform at the scale of the area of your windshield.
- the raining goes vertically.
such that when your car is at rest, the rain that your windshield catches is $(\vec{J}\cdot \vec{a})t=0\cdot t=0 \ldots (1) $
whereas $a$ is your windsheild's area; the direction is pointing out same as your car's velocity.
let your car's speed is $v_\text{car}$; To make things simpler: considering in the frame of you sitting in the car. additionally assuming:
- Your car is at constant speed.
then by relative motion, the rain drops your car's windshield will get is:
$(\vec{J'}\cdot \vec{a})t=\sigma(\vec{v}_\text{rain}-\vec{v}_\text{car})\cdot \vec{a}t$
by (1)
$=-\sigma \vec{v}_\text{car}\cdot \vec{a}t$
given the assumption (1.) and (3.) , then it becomes:
$=-(\sigma at) v_\text{car} $
So it is exactly proportional your car's speed!!!
That's why you got that feeling. but wait a second.
$=-(\sigma at) \frac{L}{T} =-\sigma aL $
It is independent now! Why? Because higher speed means faster to get to your destination. As it turns out, these two factors cancel each other exactly like I have just showed.
But wait a second..... again.
The rain drops will NOT stay on your windshield till the cows come home. As it turns out, you are RIGHT!! You drive faster, the windshield will get "more rain drops", because the rain drops don't get enough time to slip down!
considering the extra reality, such as wind, and the degree of decline of windshield, will have some effect, but that doesn't change the physics I have just typed, but adding details.
Say, if there is wind, then its effect on the rain drop's velocity horizontal part survive and add up as:
$$(\vec{J'}\cdot \vec{a})t=\sigma(\vec{v'}_{rain}+\vec{v}_\text{car})\cdot \vec{a}t=\sigma(\vec{v}_\text{rain}+\vec{v}_\text{wh}-\vec{v}_\text{car})\cdot \vec{a}t =\sigma\vec{v}_{wh}\cdot \vec{a}t-\sigma aL $$
$\vec{v}_\text{wh}\cdot \vec{a}<0$ means your windshield gets more rain drops if there is harder wind against your car's motion. Meanwhile if $\vec{v}_\text{wh}\cdot \vec{a} >0$ the if your car goes with the same direction with the wind, your windshield will get less rain drops.