Silly question, but when sending a single electron at a time through a double-slit and observing the interference pattern over time ... how does the single electron that popped up ('measured') at a given point on the screen tell other points on the screen that they better not detect the same electron? Isn't that the definition of the spooky action at a distance? I mean, if the electron is a wave and there are no hidden variables, it means that it really is not pre-determined where the electron going to pop up on the screen until it's actually detected. Like, when the electron just left the electron gun, it can still pop up anywhere on the screen, right? But, supposed it pops up at point A. How does point B know (and point B could be 1 light year away from point A) that it's now 'forbidden' to detect the electron since it's already been detected at point A? It sounds to me very similar to the entanglement issue with opposite spins where we need to 'communicate' instantaneously.
But maybe it's obvious why this is not an issue ...