I want to find the hermitian conjugate of 4-derivative $\partial_\mu$ for the real scalar Lagrangian defined as
$$\mathcal{L} = \frac{1}{2} (\partial_\mu \phi)^\dagger(\partial^\mu\phi) - \frac{1}{2}m^2(\phi^\dagger\phi)-V(\phi^\dagger\phi),$$ where I use the Minkowski sign convention $(+,-,-,-)$.
I am confused that when I find the hermitian conjugate of $\partial_\mu$ by the usual procedure of calculating expectation value, I get $\partial_\mu^\dagger = -\partial_\mu$, but in Dirac equation we used $\partial_\mu^\dagger = +\partial_\mu$. So I want to know that when will be there plus sign with hermitian conjugate and when will be there minus sign and what what will be the hermitian conjugate for the above given Lagrangian.
I found a similar question Hermitian adjoint of 4-gradient in Dirac equation , but there is no satisfactory answer to the more general question I asked.