I'm trying to show, using Lorentz transformations, that if relativistic energy and momentum are conserved in $S$, then they are conserved in $S'$ too.
A wrong proof
Let's suppose I know that in system $S$ energy and momentum are conserved (in isolated systems). So, taken two time $t_1$ and $t_2$ we know that \begin{equation} \sum_i \gamma_{u_i} m_i = \sum_j \gamma_{u_j} m_j \end{equation} \begin{equation} \sum_i \gamma_{u_i} m_i \mathbf{u}_i = \sum_j \gamma_{u_j} m_j \mathbf{u}_j \end{equation} Where sum in $i$ and $j$ are done respectively before and after (I mean at time $t_1$ and at time $t_2$). Well, exploiting Lorentz transformations is easy to show that \begin{equation} \gamma_{u_i} = \gamma \gamma_{u_i'} \left( 1 + \frac{u_{xi}' v}{c^2} \right) \end{equation} \begin{equation} u_{xi} = \frac{u_{xi}' + v }{1 + \frac{u_{xi}' v}{c^2}} \end{equation} So for energy and $x$ component of momentum, the sums in $S'$ became \begin{equation} \sum_i \gamma_{u_i'} m_i + \frac{v}{c^2 } \sum_i \gamma_{u_i'} m_i u_{xi}' = \sum_j \gamma_{u_j'} m_j + \frac{v}{c^2 } \sum_j \gamma_{u_j'} m_j u_{xj}' \end{equation} \begin{equation} \sum_i \gamma_{u_i'} m_i u_{xi}' + v \sum_i \gamma_{u_i'} m_i = \sum_j \gamma_{u_j'} m_j u_{xj}' + v \sum_j \gamma_{u_j'} m_j \end{equation} Multiplying the first by $-\frac{c^2}{v}$ and then sum to the second we find conservation of energy in $S'$ too. If instead we multiply by $-v$ and we sum we get the conservation of $x$ component of momentum. Transverse components of momentum are even simpler, we only have to exploit \begin{equation} u_y = \frac{u_{yi}'}{\gamma \left( 1+\frac{u_{xi}' v}{c^2} \right)} \end{equation} At first glance one can say wow, great, this looks simple and powerful, like best proofs do. Unfortunately after thinking about it I realized that this beautiful proof was... completely wrong! I hadn't noticed an important detail: in $S'$ I do a sum with particles that are in different time (because of different positions), this is meaningless.
Question
I fear there are no way to patch up this proof and I have to throw it in the trash. So how can I reach the goal to proof that if energy and momentum are conserved in $S$ so are conserved in $S'$ too? I fear the only way to bypass problem related to time transformations is writing locally an energy conservation equation, and then show that this equation is Lorentz-invariant. But this road doesn't seem easy, and anyway I beg you not to start writing hieroglyphics in tensor notation, I can't understand them. Thank you.
Edit: a simple proof, but it works only for perfect gas
Let's suppose that in $S$ we have a box containing perfect gas in equilibrium. We have $E_{tot} \equiv \sum_i E_i$ where $i$ is the energy of the particle $i$. If $S'$ use the same definition of energy and momentum it is easy to show that for each particle $E_i'=\gamma (E_i - v p_{xi})$. Each particle has this energy at its own transformed time so we shouldn't sum, but if we are considering a gas, for statistical reason, we don't care if we take all the particles at the same time or we measure their energy and momentum at different time, even in this last case we will have $\sum_i p_{xi} \approx 0$ and $\sum_i E_i$ approximately always the same, no matter the time in which we do measurement for each particle (if we are not choosing different time deliberately with the intention of obtaining certain values for $\sum_i p_{xi}$ and $\sum_i E_i$ but this is not our case: different time are simply due to different $x$ coordinates and particles of gas are uniformly distributed in the space, this distribution is not related to their dynamical properties). But $E_{tot}' \equiv \sum_i E_i'$. Conclusion: $E_{tot}' = \gamma E_{tot}$, so for $S'$ system too energy is conserved. Lorentz transformations implies that if energy of the perfect gas in a box is conserved in $S$, then it is conserved in $S'$ too.