I'm trying to prove the conservation of momentum of a set of charged particles, but I'm trying to do it without using the momentum tensor, as it does the Jackson electrodynamics book.
If we start with the momentum and its derivative,
$$P=\sum m_j v_j+\epsilon_0\int E\times Bd^3r$$
$$\frac{dP}{dt}=\sum m_j \dot{v}_j+\epsilon_0\int \left(\dot{E}\times B+E\times \dot{B}\right)d^3r$$
Substituting the right part derivatives from Maxwell equations, and the left part from Lorentz equation,
\begin{align}\frac{dP}{dt}&=\sum q_j(E+v_j\times B)+\epsilon_0\int \left[\left(c^2 \nabla \times B-\frac{1}{\epsilon_0}J \right)\times B+E\times \left( -\nabla \times E \right)\right]d^3r \\ &=\sum q_j(E+v_j\times B)+\epsilon_0 c^2\int (\nabla \times B)\times Bd^3r-\int J\times Bd^3r-\epsilon_0 \int E\times (\nabla \times E) d^3r \end{align}
Now substituting $J$ for a set of particles $J=\sum q_j v_j \delta(r-r_j)$, the integral vanishes with the Dirac delta,
\begin{align}\frac{dP}{dt}&=\sum q_j(E+v_j\times B)+\epsilon_0 c^2\int (\nabla \times B)\times Bd^3r-\sum q_j v_j\times B-\epsilon_0 \int E\times (\nabla \times E) d^3r \\ &=\sum q_jE+\epsilon_0 c^2\int (\nabla \times B)\times Bd^3r-\epsilon_0 \int E\times (\nabla \times E) d^3r \end{align}
Now I use the property, $$A \times (\nabla \times A)=\frac{1}{2}\nabla (A \cdot A)-(A \cdot\nabla)A$$
So (using $\nabla(A \cdot A)=(\nabla A) A + A (\nabla A)$) the expression ends up being,
\begin{align}\frac{dP}{dt}&=\sum q_jE\\ &-\epsilon_0 c^2\int \left(\frac{(\nabla B) B + B (\nabla B)}{2}-(B\cdot \nabla)B\right)d^3r\\ &-\epsilon_0 \int \left(\frac{(\nabla E) E + E (\nabla E)}{2}-(E\cdot \nabla)E\right)d^3r \end{align}
And from Maxwell equations, $\nabla \cdot B=0$ and $\nabla \cdot E= \rho/\epsilon_0$, and also for charged particles $\rho=\sum q_j \delta(r-r_j)$
\begin{align}\frac{dP}{dt}&=\sum q_jE +\epsilon_0 c^2\int (B\cdot \nabla)Bd^3r- \int \rho Ed^3r+\epsilon_0 \int (E\cdot \nabla)Ed^3r \\ &=\sum q_jE +\epsilon_0 c^2\int (B\cdot \nabla)Bd^3r- \int \sum q_j \delta(r-r_j)Ed^3r+\epsilon_0 \int (E\cdot \nabla)Ed^3r \\ &=\sum q_jE +\epsilon_0 c^2\int (B\cdot \nabla)Bd^3r-\sum q_jE+\epsilon_0 \int (E\cdot \nabla)Ed^3r \\ &=\epsilon_0 c^2\int (B\cdot \nabla)Bd^3r+\epsilon_0 \int (E\cdot \nabla)Ed^3r \end{align}
Arriving to \begin{equation}\boxed{\frac{dP}{dt}=\epsilon_0 \int\left(c^2 (B\cdot \nabla)B+ (E\cdot \nabla)E\right)d^3r}\end{equation}
And now I don't know at all how to follow, because if I apply the definition of the Nabla operators, we arrive to
\begin{align}\frac{dP}{dt}&=\epsilon_0 \sum_i \int\left(c^2B_i \frac{\partial B_i}{dx_i}+E_i \frac{\partial E_i}{dx_i} \right)d^3r \\ &=\epsilon_0 \sum_i \frac{1}{2}\frac{\partial}{\partial x_i}\int\left(c^2B_i^2 +E_i^2 \right)d^3r \end{align}
But at this point I don't have idea of what I need to do next, I only know that we can change to the reciprocal space, where we have the variables discretized, \begin{align}\mathscr{E}&=iN(k)\left(\alpha(k)-\alpha(-k)^*\right)\\ \mathscr{B}&=\frac{iN(k)}{c}\left(\hat{n}\times\alpha(k)+\hat{n}\times\alpha(-k)^*\right) \end{align}
But I can't apply this to the components $E_i$ of the fields... so if someone could give me some help or some hint I will be very grateful