I have a question that's half about a definition, half about computation. In fluid dynamics, if we have a velocity field $\mathbf u(\mathbf x,t)$ defined in some domain in $\mathbb R^N\times \mathbb R$ for $N=1,2,$ or $3$, then we define the strain rate tensor $(\varepsilon_{ij})_{ij}$ by \begin{equation} \varepsilon_{ij} = \frac12\left(\frac{\partial u_i}{\partial x_j} + \frac{\partial u_j}{\partial x_i}\right). \end{equation}
Now, I am asked to derive the formula for $\varepsilon$ in cylindrical coordinates. Presumably though, we would have a different formula than this.
My background is mainly mathematical, and I'm familiar with tensor calculus from differential geometry. Expressed in coordinate invariant notation, it would seem to me that $\varepsilon$ is simply the symmetrization of $\nabla\mathbf u^\sharp$ considered as a contravariant $2$-tensor field.
However, this leads to a calculation that would appear to be erroneous, since I then get that $$\varepsilon_{\theta\theta} = \frac{1}{r^2}\partial_\theta u_\theta + \frac{1}{r^3}u_r$$ while I am asked to show that $$\varepsilon_{\theta\theta}=\frac{1}{r}\partial_\theta u_\theta + \frac{1}{r}u_r.$$
So is this the correct way of calculating $\varepsilon$?
Here is my work:
We already know the Christoffel symbols $\Gamma_{r\theta}^\theta=\Gamma_{\theta r}^\theta=\frac{1}{r}$, $\Gamma_{\theta\theta}^r = -r$, and that the rest are $0$. We may then calculate that \begin{equation} \nabla\mathbf u^\sharp = g^{ik}\left( \frac{\partial u^j}{\partial x_k} + u^l\Gamma_{kl}^j \right) \frac{\partial}{\partial x_i}\otimes \frac{\partial}{\partial x_j} \end{equation} so that $$ \varepsilon_{\theta\theta}=\frac{1}{r^2}\left( \frac{\partial u_\theta}{\partial\theta}+\frac{u_r}{r} \right) $$ which is different from the desired answer. Where did I go wrong?