Consider the Gell-Mann matrices, with
$$ \lambda_3 = \operatorname{diag}(1, -1,0), \quad \lambda_8 = \frac{1}{\sqrt{3}}\operatorname{diag}(1, 1, -2), \quad, ... \ , $$
they span the Lie algebra $\mathfrak{su}(3)$. The Lie algebra transforms under the Lie group (not Lie algebra) $SU(3)$ in the adjoint representation, which is irreducible. By irreducibility, I would like to make the following statement:
Take a non-zero vector $T$ in $\mathfrak{su}(3)$, and consider the adjoint action $ad_g$$Ad_g$ (where $g$ is a group element in $SU(3)$) on $T$ and define the linear space $V_T:=\operatorname{span} \{ad_g T | \forall g \in SU(3)\}$$V_T:=\operatorname{span} \{Ad_g T | \forall g \in SU(3)\}$. $V_T$ is a non-trivial subspace of $\mathfrak{su}(3)$ and also closed under the adjoint action, thereby forming a representation of $SU(3)$, hence $V_T$ must be equal to $\mathfrak{su}(3)$ by irreducibility.
Now, I would like to confirm the above statement, by explicitly playing with the Gell-mann matrices. I can take $T = \lambda_8$, and hope to find a $g$ such that $ad_g \lambda_8 \propto \lambda_3$$Ad_g \lambda_8 \propto \lambda_3$ with a non-zero proportionality. The adjoint action can be written as matrix multiplication $g \lambda_8 g^\dagger$, hence $$ g \lambda_8 \propto \lambda_3 g \ . $$ But this proportionality is impossible, since it forces $$ \frac{1}{\sqrt{3}}\begin{bmatrix} g_{11} & g_{12} & - 2 g_{13}\\ g_{21} & g_{22} & -2 g_{23}\\ g_{31} & g_{32} & -2 g_{33} \end{bmatrix} \propto \begin{bmatrix} g_{11} & g_{12} & g_{13}\\ -g_{21} & - g_{22} & -g_{23} \\ 0 & 0 & 0 \end{bmatrix} \ . $$ This forces $g_{3i} = 0$, which is not good condition for $g \in SU(3)$.
I wonder which part of the above reasoning is wrong?