Question: Consider two opposite charges, of magnitudes q$q$ and −q$−q$, separated by the vector d$\vec{d}$.
Compute the scalar potential at all points in space, in the limit in which q$q$ becomes very large and d very small, with p ≡ qd$\vec{p}\equiv q\vec{d}$ kept constant.
My attempt: So I have picked a general point r = $(x,y,z)^T$$\vec{r} = (x,y,z)^T$ and labelled the origin at the point charge q$q$.
Then I have taken the formula for an electric potential:
$$ \phi(\mathbb{r})= \frac{1}{4\pi\epsilon_{0}} (\frac{q} {\mathbb{|r|}} -\frac{q}{|\mathbb{r} - \mathbb{d}|}) $$$$ \phi(\mathbb{r})= \frac{1}{4\pi\epsilon_{0}} \left(\frac{q} {\mathbb{|\vec{r}|}} -\frac{q}{|\mathbb{\vec{r}} - \mathbb{\vec{d}}|}\right) $$
However I'm not sure how to manipulate this further to reach a point where I can use p ≡ qd$\vec{p}\equiv q\vec{d}$ is constant. Any help would be greatly appreciated.