The condition for creation of a black hole is:
$$ \text{gravitational potential} \le -\frac{ c^2 }{ 2 } $$
I won't go into the details of how to calculate the potential. But for the center of a star, suffice it to say that it's slightly more complicated than $-GM/r$.
You can see that this makes no reference to the gravitational field itself. It comes from the integral of the gravitational field. What's more, it's subjective. If I'm at a different gravitational potential than you (practically, I am, somewhat), then you and I will disagree about where the event horizons are, and even which objects may be black holes. And yet, this is what the physics tells us.
Light cannot escape from below the event horizon, so we're tempted to think of it as a matter of the acceleration there. But this isn't quite the case. The conflict is resolved in the subtleties of the mathematics of general relativity. I find it more accurate to think of an accumulated current of spacetime, but formally, this is a "geodesic". A geodesic is one of the lines you can travel if you undergo no acceleration. At the event horizon, there are no geodesics that more away from the singularity. So even light "stands still". The light cones are tilted. This tilting isn't the same as acceleration. It's something different entirely. This is truly strange, and it's what happens between different gravitational potentials.