My understanding from reading about quantum mechanics is that the state of a particle such as an electron can be kept in a superposition of energy states for an extended period of time, when it is not interacting with other particles, but that as soon as atoms interact with each other, their electrons will tend to an energy eigenstate.
But energy eigenstates are just one particular basis for representing quantum states of an electron. Why do particles tend to eigenstates of the hamiltonian, as opposed to elements of some random other basis?