From wiki:
one begins by setting up a family of closely spaced geodesics indexed by a continuous variable $s$ and parametrized by an affine parameter $\tau$. That is, for each fixed $s$, the curve swept out by $\gamma_s(\tau)$ as $\tau$ varies is a geodesic. When considering the geodesic of a massive object, it is often convenient to choose $\tau$ to be the object's proper time. If $x_\mu(s, \tau)$ are the coordinates of the geodesic $\gamma_s(\tau)$, then the tangent vector of this geodesic is:
$$ T^\mu = \frac{\partial x^\mu(s,\tau)}{\partial \tau} $$
Can or how does one physically measure geodesic deviation?
For example if I am undergoing geodesic motion and see a mirror undergoing motion and shoot a light beam at it. I measure the distance (metric) between the mirror and me and not the deviation vector.