Suppose we have an incident wave $\psi_i$ heading towards an interface, then when it reaches the interface it is split into a reflected and a transmitted wave:
$$ \psi_i \to \psi_r + \psi_t $$
Why then do we calculate the reflection and transmission by saying that the sum of the amplitudes of the incident and reflected waves equals the amplitude of the transmitted wave?
$$ \psi_i + \psi_r = \psi_t $$
Surely the sum of the reflected wave and the transmitted wave should equal the amplitude of the incident wave since the incident wave is broken down into these two elements.