Let's compare a specific instance of gauge theory (electroweak theory) with a specific form of gravity (Lorentz gauge gravity, also know as Einstein-Cartan gravity). Interestingly, in addition to gauge fields, both of them have add-on non-gauge bosonic fields (Higgs in electroweak theory and tetrad/metric in Lorentz gravity) responsible for spontaneous symmetry breaking. The comparison breaks down into two sections with one section for gauge fields, and another section for bosonic fields responsible for spontaneous symmetry breaking:
Gauge fields and gauge symmetries:
Similarities: Both electroweak theory and Lorentz gravity enjoy local gauge symmetries and have corresponding gauge fields as an essential ingredient. The gauge group of electroweak theory is $SU(2)*U_Y(1)$, whereas the gauge group of Lorentz gravity is the local Lorentz group $SO(1,3)$. The gauge fields of former are electroweak gauge fields $W_\mu, A_\mu$, whereas the gauge field of latter is the spin connection field $\omega_\mu$.
Dissimilarities: The Yang-Mills Lagrangian of electroweak theory is quadratic in gauge field curvature ($F = d W + W \wedge W$): $L_{YM} \sim F*F$ , whereas first-order Lagrangian of Lorentz gravity is linear in spin connection gauge field curvature ($R= d \omega + \omega \wedge \omega $): $L_{G} \sim R$.
Add-on bosonic fields (Higgs and tetrad/metric) responsible for spontaneous symmetry breaking:
Similarities: Other than the gauge fields, both electroweak theory and Lorentz gravity have additional bosonic fields that are responsible for spontaneous symmetry breaking. The symmetry-breaking field of electroweak theory is the Higgs field $H$, whereas the symmetry-breaking field of Lorentz gravity is the tetrad/veirbein field $e_\mu$ (which could be understood as the square root of metric $g_{\mu\nu}$). Both the Higgs field $H$ and the tetrad/veirbein field $e_\mu$ break the gauge symmetries upon acquiring a non-zero vacuum expectation value (VEV). The VEV of Higgs field $H$ in electroweak theory breaks the gauge symmetry from $SU(2)*U_Y(1)$ down to $U_{EM}(1)$, whereas the Minkowskian VEV of the tetrad/veirbein field $e_\mu$ in Lorentz gravity breaks the gauge symmetry from the local Lorentz gauge symmetry $SO(1,3)$ down to the global Lorentz symmetry of special relativity.
Dissimilarities: The Higgs field $H$ in electroweak theory is a scalar, whereas the tetrad/veirbein field $e_\mu$ in Lorentz gravity is a vector. Due to the non-trivial diffeomorphism transformation properties of the tetrad/veirbein field $e_\mu$ as a vector, the Minkowskian VEV of the tetrad/veirbein field $e_\mu$ breaks the diffeomorphism symmetry as well, in addition to breaking the local Lorentz symmetry $SO(1,3)$. On the other hand, the VEV of the Higgs field $H$ as a scalar does not break the diffeomorphism symmetry.