I ask this question here knowing there are similar questions on this site, but not having found a satisfactory answer for myself below those. Or at least, one in which a comparison between different answers is properly considered.
The question is simple, yet one can provide a multitude of answers of increasing sophistication. These often take the following forms:
It is a matter of size. Objects below a certain size threshold exhibit quantum behavior, while those above behave classically.
It is a matter of degrees of freedom. Objects with too many degrees of freedom behave classically (a system of pariticles) while those with less degreees of freedom behave quantum mechanically.
It is a matter of Action. If the action is small compared to $h$, then the system is quantum, while if it larger than $h$, it is classical.
It is a matter of decoherence. System which become "too" entangled with their surroundings end up loosing their quantum nature, while only those which remain isolated remain quantum.
There are clear arguments against answers of type 1). For instance macroscopic quantum phenomena. Arguably answers of type 2,3,4 can be seen to be related to one another to different extents. What I would like to know is which of these criteria (or a different one) - and most importantly why - should count as the best criteria.