My understanding is that, if an atom finds itself in an excited state, for instance following electron capture and gamma emission, the atom relaxes to the ground electronic state because of the perturbation caused by the room temperature. The atom may temporarily borrow energy in order to relax, if you like.
So in the absence of the kick provided by the temperature of the room, would excited electronic states be stable?
Radioactive decay is spontaneous because essentially, everything is at absolute zero for nuclear relaxations, because of the large energy changes involved in transitioning between nuclear states.
This is of course not true in stars.
Thanks in advance, I look forward to hearing the answer.