Recently I have done some simulations with a linear system that behaves similarly to the wave equation. Now I have a bit of trouble understanding when interaction is possible in linear theories, especially in the context of quantum mechanics. If we, for instance, consider a linear theory like the maxwell equations we have no interaction between two light waves (as far as I recount).
I have read the general answer here, however I still do not get how one would formulate the interaction between e.g. two electrons described by a wave function. If we take the time dependent Schrödinger Equation:
$$i \hbar \frac{\partial}{\partial t} | \psi \rangle = \hat{H} | \psi \rangle $$
How would the Hamiltonian be formulated to incorporate interaction and still be linear? The often seen expression
$$\hat{H} = \hat{T} + \hat{V}$$ where $$\hat{V} = \frac{e^2}{4 \pi \epsilon_{0}} \frac{1}{\left| \vec{r}_{1} - \vec{r}_{2} \right|} $$
does not make so much sense to me here, because I do not understand how $\vec{r}_1 , \vec{r}_2$ would be defined at different times in the time dependent Schrödinger equation without involving the wave function itself in a non linear fashion.