One way of deal with scattering problems is to use partial wave analysis. This is the procedure I've found in my notes: It's assumed that the observer is in the center-of-mass reference frame and the system is treated using the reduced mass.
When the interaction potential in the origin is zero the wave function is a plane wave $$\psi_{{\rm incident}}(x)=e^{i\vec{k}\cdot \vec{x}} $$ The plane wave can be rewritten as a sum of partial waves $$\psi_{{\rm incident}}=\sum_l i^l(2l+1)\left[e^{-i\left(kr-\frac {\pi}{2} l\right)}-e^{i\left(kr-\frac {\pi}{2} l\right)}\right]P_l(\cos\theta).$$
When the interaction within the two particles is present, it's assumed that the wave function becames: $$\psi=\sum_l i^l(2l+1)\left[e^{-i\left(kr-\frac {\pi}2 l\right)}-\eta(k)e^{i\left(kr-\frac {\pi}2 l\right)}\right]P_l(\cos\theta)$$
Finally using these wave function we derive an expression for the probability currents $j_{incident}$ and $j_{scattered}$ and doing some consideration we obtain an expression for the cross section.
Scattering between two particles is a process that evolves in time, so I don't understand why we treat it as it were a static phenomena (using stationary states). Can you explain me in words what is the main idea behind this method?