The way I see your problem is that you are not able to develop an intuitive explanation in the case of charges , isn't it?
Well, let's first look at facts and observations: it was found experimentally that whenever we have two charges of magnitude $q_1$ and $q_2$ and if they are separated by a distance $r$ then the force between them (whether it's gonna be attractive or repulsive is a matter of sign of charges) is $$ F= k~ \frac{q_1q_1}{r^2}$$
where $k$ is a constant. And this force always acts on a line joining the charges. Another result was found experimentally, it has been one of the greatest results that was found experimentally and logic alone could never found it, known as Principle of Superposition , it says that no matter how many charges are present the force between two charges is unaltered and hence given by $$ F= k~\frac{q_1q_2}{r^2}$$ .
Let me give you a very counter-intuitve illustration of the above fact:
You can see very clearly that there is a charge $q_3$ between $q_1$ and $q_2$ and if we assume that force is something intuitive (I mean contact force like string force, push, pull) and the above fact that electrostatic force acts on a line joining the charges, so it seem very counter-intuitive that force between $q_1$ and $q_2$ remains unaltered due to the obstruction by $q_3$. But the experimental results show that the force between $q_1$ and $q_2$ is still $$ F = k~ \frac{q_1q_2}{r^2}$$ . (Warning: $q_2$ gonna feel a force due to $q_3$ and hence the net influence gonna be the sum of these forces and same is true for both $q_1$ and $q_3$) This verifies that electrostatic force is not something like contact forces (spring forces, tension, muscular pull or push etc.) but something that follows the Principle of Superposition . You can see this video to get some idea about field force.
Now let us assume that we bring another electron near the proton, will the attractive force between the new electron and proton be the same as it was between the previous set of the two, or does it get distributed between the two new electrons?
Yes, if the distance between the new electron from proton is same as it was between old electron and proton. But the total influence on the one charge will be the sum of the influences due to the other two.
Hope it helps.