In a standard harmonic oscillator potential I have the state $\left|\Psi\right> = \frac{1}{\sqrt{2}}(\left|0\right> + \left|1\right>)$ and if I calculate the expected value $\left<x\right>$ I get $\sqrt{\frac{\hbar}{2m\omega}}$, which is different from $0$. I don't quite get how some state can "prefer" a particular side of the oscillator. I know that the superposition of the two states is what you could say tilted to one side, in fact I've done the plot shown below, but I don't get the physical sense of this, and I would need an explanation. It confuses me because I've always been told that the wave function for itself doesn't have any physical meaning, it's only the function squared that we can perceive, but then with the example I've just given, couldn't we know if the ground state has a particular sign and the 1st excited the opposite sign depending on the side of the harmonic oscillator that our state "preferes"?
Edit: Thanks for demonstrating to me that the expected value of the function over time is 0, but there's something I don't understand yet. In a particular instant, the eigenstates (\left|0\right> and \left|1\right>) will each have a particular sign, so if you could measure just an instant you could actually know how the wave function is, besides the square of it. I know I'm probably wrong, I just don't know where.