For verifying I set the inner product relation for hermitian conjugate operators: $$<\psi|L_-\psi>=<L_+\psi |\psi>$$ But I get: $<\psi|L_-\psi>=-<L_-\psi|\psi>$
Since the lowering/raising operator acts on the x and y basis specificaly by definition ($L_\pm=L_x\pm iL_y$)
I tried to evaluate over volume $d^3 \textbf{r} = dxdydz$. Then, by considering $L_x=y\hat{p}_z-z \hat{p}_y$, and $\hat{p}_{x,y,z}=\frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{\partial }{\partial (x,y,z)}$, I get: $$<\psi|L_-\psi>=\int\psi^*(L_x- iL_y)\psi d^3 \textbf{r}$$ $$\int\psi^*(L_x- iL_y)\psi d^3 \textbf{r}=\int\psi^* \left [y\frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{\partial }{\partial z}\psi-z\frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{\partial }{\partial y}\psi-i(z\frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{\partial }{\partial x}\psi-x\frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{\partial }{\partial z}\psi)\right ]d^3\textbf{r}$$
$$=\int\psi^*y\frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{\partial }{\partial z}\psi-\psi^*z\frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{\partial }{\partial y}\psi-\psi^*z\hbar\frac{\partial }{\partial x}\psi+\psi^*x\hbar\frac{\partial }{\partial z}\psi d^3\textbf{r}$$
Now noting that the terms are very similar, in general the integration by parts for each term will be of the form:
$$\int \psi^*C\frac{\partial }{\partial (x,y,z)}\psi d^3\textbf{r}=\psi^*\psi|^{\infty}_{-\infty}-\int\psi\frac{\partial }{\partial (x,y,z)}\psi^* d^3\textbf{r}=-\int\psi\frac{\partial }{\partial (x,y,z)}\psi^* d^3\textbf{r}$$
Then, after integrating each term by parts we get:
$$<\psi|L_-\psi>=\int-\psi y\frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{\partial \psi^*}{\partial z}+\psi z\frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{\partial \psi^*}{\partial y}+\psi z\hbar\frac{\partial \psi^*}{\partial x}-\psi x\hbar\frac{\partial \psi^*}{\partial z} d^3\textbf{r}$$
$$=\int-\psi y\hat{p}_z\psi^*+\psi z\hat{p}_y\psi^*+i\left (\psi z\frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{\partial \psi^*}{\partial x}-\psi x\frac{\hbar}{i}\frac{\partial \psi^*}{\partial z}\right ) d^3\textbf{r}$$
$$=\int-\psi y\hat{p}_z\psi^*+\psi z\hat{p}_y\psi^*+i\left (\psi z\hat{p}_x\psi^*-\psi x\hat{p}_z\psi^*\right ) d^3\textbf{r}$$
$$=\int \psi\left [ -y\hat{p}_z+ z\hat{p}_y+i\left ( z\hat{p}_x- x\hat{p}_z\right ) \right ]\psi^* d^3\textbf{r} $$
$$=\int \psi\left [ -L_x +i L_y \right ]\psi^* d^3\textbf{r} $$
$$=-\int \psi\left [ L_x -i L_y \right ]\psi^* d^3\textbf{r} $$
Here is the thing, the last integral isn't equal to?:
$$-\int \psi\left [ L_x -i L_y \right ]\psi^* d^3\textbf{r}=-<L_-\psi|\psi> $$
But for the verification it has to be: $<L_+\psi|\psi>$
Maybe I'm missing something trivial...