Consider the Bell state $|\psi\rangle =\frac{|00\rangle +|11\rangle}{\sqrt{2}}$.
When measuring one of the individual systems, the superposition is projected onto one of the eigenstates $|00\rangle$ or $|11\rangle$.
Imagine we measured the entangled systems at the same time. Which part will project the state? That is, at measurement one part of the system determines the outcome of the other. But if measured at the same time, which determines the outcome?
For the moment I neglect special relativity and think the observer to be in the rest frame of the experiment.