A very basic question, and apologies if I have overlooked something obvious. In newtons 3rd law, presumably energy is transfered to the second body from the first body (which itself was subject to an external force), and this is how the second body 'produces' the equal but opposite force.
If this is right, I then get confused/bothered by the implicit assumption of back and forth energy transferance, all happening instantaneously. Is it really an instantaneous process, or does this back and forth slow the system?