This question does not have an easy answer. Most other online calculators are based on theoretical formulas, which are notoriously inaccurate, especially for very large or very small sizes. In addition, you will find it hard to find theoretical values that work in real world situations. This is because pull force values are tested under laboratory conditions, you probably won't achieve the same holding force under real world conditions. The effective pull force is reduced by uneven contact with the metal surface, pulling in a direction that is not perpendicular to the steel, attaching to metal that is thinner than ideal, surface coatings, and other factors.
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This is directly from their site:
"Our fanatical engineers have worked long and hard in the laboratory developing our online calculators that are VERY accurate based on thousands of test cases. Our pull force and magnetic field density calculators can be found here."
This is a link to their calculator, if you want to mess around a bit.
If you are really serious, however, there is plenty of purchasable electro-magnetic simulation software out there.
Here is a question from a previous user about some recommended software.
Where can I find simulation software for electricity and magnets?