The important fact is that the change of an object $O$ under an infinitesimal transformation generated by a generator $G$ can be written in terms of their commutator (infinitesimal parameter $\alpha$):
$$O\longrightarrow O + \delta O\enspace\,\,\text{where}\enspace\,\, \delta O = i\alpha [G,\,O]$$
(to prove this, see JeffDror's answer).
To interpret your first commutator $[J_i, J_j] = i\epsilon_{ijk} J_k$, put object $O=J_j$ and generator $G=J_i$, and the result on the right hand side is $\delta J = i\alpha_j\epsilon_{ijk}\,J_i$ tells you how the object $J$ transforms under the action of the generator $J$. This defines a vector. More generally, we learned
$$\delta O = i\alpha_j\epsilon_{ijk}O_k\qquad\text{under $J_i$}$$
is how a vector $O$ transforms under the action of $J$. From now on, any $O$ satisfying the above is a vector.
Now move on to the next commutator $[J_i, M_j] = i\epsilon_{ijk} M_k$. To interpret this, we identify $M$ as our object and $J$ as the generator. The result on the right hand side $\delta M_i = i\alpha_j \epsilon_{ijk}M_k$ tells you that $M$ transforms precisely in the same way a vector changes.