Dear D-brane, indeed, a uniform thermal radiation would curve the Universe. Even if one doesn't immerse the black hole in a thermal bath, the outgoing Hawking radiation may violate the asymptotically flat conditions at any finite time, although just mildly.
However, an evaporating black hole that is not surrounded in the thermal bath ultimately evaporates and the Hawking radiation dilutes arbitrarily, so that the Universe will be asymptotically flat.
And a black hole immersed in a thermal bath of the same temperature does curve the Universe, but the curvature is much smaller than the curvature near the black hole as long as the black hole is much greater than the Planck length (or Planck mass). There is a parametric gap here. In the Planck units, if the radius is $R$, then the mass is also $M=R$ (in four dimensions), but the temperature is $1/R$, the density of radiation is $1/R^d$ i.e. $1/R^4$ in four dimensions, and the amount of radiation (energy per unit time) above the horizon is $R^{d-2}/R^d = 1/R^2$, in any dimension. That's $R^3$ times smaller than $R=M$, in $d=4$, so the Hawking radiation will evaporate the black hole mass in time $R^3$ - more generally, $R^{d-1}$, which is still $R^{d-2}=R^2$ times longer than the characteristic time scale of the black hole (orbital time for light, for example).
The bigger a black hole is, the more you can neglect those things. The factors $R^2$ or $R^3$ are huge because, for example, the black hole at the center of the Milky Way has 3+ million solar masses which is almost $10^{37}$ kilograms or $M=10^{45}$ Planck masses. The energy carried by the Hawking radiation is smaller by a factor that is a positive power of $10^{45}$. It's small, indeed.