It depends on your stance on the philosophical question of Presentism versus Eternalism.
'Presentism' is the philosophical position that only the present exists, and the past and future don't. The past existed but no longer exists. The future does not yet exist, but will.
'Eternalism' is the philosophical position that all times, past, present, and future, are real and continually exist. The future is 'already there', laid out ahead of us. The past still exists. All time is laid out in an unchanging, 4-dimensional 'block universe'.
Special relativity poses serious problems for Presentism. If the existing 'now' is the plane of simultaneity of a given observer, then yes, existence does appear to 'wiggle' and oscillate backwards and forwards as the observer moves around. (There are alternatives to the observer's plane of simultaneity we could pick, but they all have similar problems.)
If you take the position of Eternalism, this isn't so much of a problem. Your 'now' moves around back and forth in time, but it entails no physical changes. Past and future are always there, and 'now' is just a choice of coordinate system - an entirely imaginary construct slicing through a 4-dimensional block.
Eternalism means the future is fixed and free will is an illusion (arguably), so lots of people want to dispute it for other reasons. And a lot of people have Presentist intuitions about time, so it provides that 'mindblowing' impact in pop science presentations to get the public interested. But if you find the Eternalist perspective natural (as most physicists do after working with relativity for a while), then it seems almost trivial and obvious.
The question gets interesting again when we think about issues of wavefunction collapse in quantum physics, which takes a somewhat Presentist stance. The future is undecided and undetermined until the moment of observation, the branching future is open while the past is not, and the influence of a collapse supposedly propagates 'instantaneously', faster than light. It's not actually entirely straightforward, even from the perspective of modern physics. But that's a separate question well-covered elsewhere.