Consider an idealised hydrogen atom in the state $|\psi\rangle=\frac{1}{\sqrt{6}}(2|1,0,0\rangle-|2,1,0\rangle+|2,1,1\rangle)$ where $|n,l,m\rangle$ are the normalised eigenstates of the Hamiltonian $\hat{H}$ and of $|\hat{\vec{L}}^{2}|, \hat{L}_z$ where $\hat{L}$ is the angular momentum operator.
Assume now that we measure $\hat{L}_z$ with outcome $m=0$. What state is the system in after the measurement?
solution from my lecture notes: By the form of $|\psi\rangle$, the state after the measurement is $|\phi\rangle=\lambda(2|1,0,0\rangle-|2,1,0\rangle)$ with $\lambda$ the normalisation constant (so $\lambda=1/\sqrt{5}$).
Question: Why are the $|n,l,m\rangle$ in the expansion of $|\phi\rangle$ only ones that appear in the expansion of $|\psi\rangle$ and why are their coefficients preserved? Why not the other $|n,l,m\rangle$ with $n=1,2,\ldots$ and $l=0,1,\ldots,n-1$? I can see that their dot product with $|\psi\rangle$ vanishes and hence adding such a state to $|\phi\rangle$ does not change the probability of measuring this state. How do I continue?